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		<title>Practicing the Mindfulness Communication Technique (MCT)</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Mar 2014 03:52:30 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>The Mindfulness Communication Technique (MCT) is based on the execution of completed communication cycles. Communication cycles are nothing new and have been around for long time. A completed communication cycle is what makes the MCT so powerful. MCT’s are basically a formal way of communicating and relating, so that these communication cycles can come to &#8230;</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p id="docs-internal-guid-9d5ed880-d342-e996-a685-bf3a5913728c" dir="ltr">The <a href="http://zencoach.wpengine.com/business-development/leadership/mindfulness-communication-technique/">Mindfulness Communication Technique</a> (MCT) is based on the execution of completed communication cycles.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Communication cycles are nothing new and have been around for long time. A completed communication cycle is what makes the MCT so powerful. MCT’s are basically a formal way of communicating and relating, so that these communication cycles can come to completion. With each completed communication cycle the mind is quieted. When the mind is clear, the mind is at peace and when the mind is at peace the world is at peace too.<span id="more-2541"></span></p>
<p dir="ltr">Most of us have had the experience of a social encounter where you were asked a question, and before you could respond the other person interrupted you or started to ask you another question before you could answer. The result is an incomplete communications which then gets stored in your mind.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Or, perhaps you have tried to engage with someone by asking them a question about something, and they go completely off topic with some sort of novel monologue that&#8217;s irrelevant. You find yourself trying to listen and be present but are left bewildered by the tangents of the person&#8217;s response and communication. Again, incomplete communication cycles result in neither party feeling gotten or understood, and end up cluttering the mind.</p>
<p dir="ltr"><em><strong>By practicing MCT you are entering into a formal communicating and relating process that cleans up incomplete communication cycles, and clears the mind.</strong></em></p>
<p dir="ltr">MCT is practiced with a partner for an agreed upon time. Most practices are in general either 30 or 40 minutes long.</p>
<p dir="ltr"><strong>The do’s and don’t of MCT</strong></p>
<p dir="ltr">MCT is not a social conversation.</p>
<p dir="ltr">MCT is not a dialogue.</p>
<p dir="ltr">MCT is not about giving advice, coaching or counseling.</p>
<p dir="ltr">MCT is an opportunity for the speaking partner to practice authentic communication by  communicating only what arises for the speaking partner as a result of their self-inquiry or contemplation. The speaking partner then communicates to the listening partner whatever arises in their consciousness as a result of the inquiry to their partner without adding anything or taking anything away.</p>
<p dir="ltr">MCT invites the speaking partner to communicate from their personal experience only.</p>
<p dir="ltr">MCT requires that the speaking partner refrain from referring to whatever their partner previously communicated.</p>
<p dir="ltr">MCT requires that the speaking partner refrain from using the word we, you, you know, you know what I mean, or anyone&#8217;s personal name. Instead use the words me, I, other or another. Some examples might be… what I am present to about myself is&#8230; or I feel another has treated me really unfair, and I am angered about that.</p>
<p dir="ltr">MCT is a meditation practice with the listening partner putting their 100% attention on their partner. If your mind starts to wander or you start thinking about what you are going to say next, just let it go and bring your attention back to your partner. This means good eye contact, and maintaining a strong connection to your partner. Refrain from fidgeting or drawing any attention to yourself.</p>
<p dir="ltr">MCT&#8217;s are an opportunity for the listener to practice open and non-judgmental listening. Listen without facial expressions, head nods, hand gestures or sounds.</p>
<p dir="ltr">MCT asks that the listening partner simply listen and understand to the best of their ability whatever your partner is trying to communicate. You are not to agree or disagree, or evaluate their communication or the content of their communication in anyway.</p>
<p dir="ltr">People are often surprised by how relaxed, clear and energized they feel after practicing MCT.</p>
<p dir="ltr"><strong>Learn how to the practice Mindfulness Communication Technique</strong> (<a href="http://zencoach.wpengine.com/business-development/leadership/mindfulness-communication-technique/#more-2453">Click Here</a>)</p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Mar 2014 22:59:50 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>A One-Day Meditation and Mindfulness Communication Retreat with Greg Clowminzer March 22, 2014 9:00am &#8211; 5:00pm Private Residence Carmel Valley (San Diego) Turning Down The Noise is a one-day meditation retreat, where people from diverse backgrounds have the opportunity to practice meditation, contemplation and authentic communication as a way to quieting your mind and supporting &#8230;</p>
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<h4 dir="ltr">A One-Day Meditation and Mindfulness Communication Retreat with Greg Clowminzer</h4>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #ff9900;"><strong>March 22, 2014</strong></span><br />
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<span style="color: #993300;"><strong> Private Residence Carmel Valley (San Diego)</strong></span></p>
<p>Turning Down The Noise is a one-day meditation retreat, where people from diverse backgrounds have the opportunity to practice meditation, contemplation and authentic communication as a way to quieting your mind and supporting you in developing a greater sense of self-awareness.<span id="more-2472"></span></p>
<p>Join <a href="http://zencoach.wpengine.com/about/">Greg Clowminzer</a> for a special day dedicated to quieting the mind through meditation and the practice of the <a href="http://zencoach.wpengine.com/leadership-development/practicing-the-mindfulness-communication-technique-mct/">mindfulness communication technique.</a></p>
<p dir="ltr">You will learn how to practice sitting meditation, breathing techniques, walking meditation, mindfulness communication techniques, plus additional group practices designed to ground, connect and empower you.</p>
<p dir="ltr"><strong>Who should attend?</strong></p>
<p dir="ltr">Individuals who are interested in learning how to meditate, experienced meditators looking to re-energize their practice, and individuals who have been previously introduced to the <a href="http://zencoach.wpengine.com/business-development/leadership/mindfulness-communication-technique/">mindfulness communication techniques (MCT)</a> and wants to deepen their practice.</p>
<p dir="ltr"><strong>Please join us and&#8230;</strong></p>
<p dir="ltr"><strong>Ground</strong> yourself in proven self-awareness practices.</p>
<p dir="ltr"><strong>Connect</strong> with a diverse community of spiritual paths and traditions.</p>
<p dir="ltr"><strong>Empower</strong> your aspirations to applying your mindfulness practice to work in the world.</p>
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<p dir="ltr"><strong>Time:</strong> 9:00am – 5:00pm<br />
<strong>Date:</strong> March 22, 2014<br />
<strong>Cost:</strong> Only $99.00<br />
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<p dir="ltr" style="text-align: center;"><strong>For more information contact Greg Clowminzer at 760-930-9604</strong></p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 May 2013 21:00:22 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>The secret to experiencing greatness is the embracing of new ideas &#8211; big ideas, which develop you and have a broad impact on others. To do this is both a privilege and a supreme responsibility. Choose Greatness &#8211; A Guide For Extraordinary Performance is designed to challenge and inspire you. Use this tool wisely by choosing &#8230;</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://zencoach.wpengine.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/NikeGreatnessLogo.jpg"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-2249" alt="NikeGreatnessLogo" src="http://zencoach.wpengine.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/NikeGreatnessLogo-300x225.jpg" width="300" height="225" srcset="https://gregclowminzer.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/NikeGreatnessLogo-300x225.jpg 300w, https://gregclowminzer.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/NikeGreatnessLogo.jpg 1024w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /></a>The secret to experiencing greatness is the embracing of new ideas &#8211; big ideas, which develop you and have a broad impact on others. To do this is both a privilege and a supreme responsibility.</p>
<p><strong>Choose Greatness &#8211; A Guide For Extraordinary Performance</strong> is designed to challenge and inspire you. Use this tool wisely by choosing a maximum of 3 items per week to focus on. Understand there is no end, no mountain top to reach when it comes to the mastery of greatness.</p>
<p><strong>Here are some ways to do that: <span id="more-2245"></span></strong></p>
<p>1. Be impeccable with your word<br />
2. Commit to being a person of integrity<br />
3. See yourself as leader, regardless of position, role or authority<br />
4. Complete you past and resolve any unfinished business<br />
5. Understand you are always at choice in the matter<br />
6. Be proactive verses reactive<br />
7. Be at cause in the matter<br />
8. Know your top 4 core values or guiding principals<br />
9. Have a goal or project that inspires you<br />
10. Upgrade your language<br />
11. Use the language that empowers yourself and others<br />
12. Exercise daily<br />
13. Journal daily<br />
14. Learn something new daily<br />
15. Practice critical self-reflection<br />
16. Improve your relationship with change<br />
17. Commit to consistent continuous personal improvement<br />
18. Commit to consistent continuous organizational improvement<br />
19. Embrace the notion of change + good + sacrifice<br />
20. Practice authentic communication<br />
21. Plan your week in advance<br />
22. Have something to look forward to every day, week, month and year<br />
23. Know your top 3/3/3’s (3 daily goals, 3 weekly goals, 3 monthly goals)<br />
24. Create vision board that inspires you<br />
25. Focus on how you want it to be<br />
26. Be the type of person who would naturally attract the things you want and need<br />
27. Invite others into a conversation that strengthens your relationship<br />
28. Be able to listen to others in such a way that they actually feel gotten<br />
29. Create a list or 10-20 accountability questions that support your development<br />
30. Check in regularly with your accountability buddy and review your questions<br />
31. Set a clear intention for the day<br />
32. Identify 4 virtues you intend to cultivate today<br />
33. Identify 4 vices you are intend to reduce or eliminate<br />
34. Make a list of 20 personal things that you currently tolerating<br />
35. Make a list of 20 professional things that you currently tolerating<br />
36. Schedule time to review your week. Journal your accomplishments, incompletions, lessons, insights, what worked, what didn’t work, concerns, opportunities, commitments<br />
37. Identify your 4 biggest opportunities to meet or exceed your top goal<br />
38. Have a clearly defined gap between the way it is and the way you want it to be<br />
39. Set up a weekly accountability call<br />
40. Perfect the present<br />
41. Hire a coach<br />
42. Practice some form of daily, weekly and monthly renewal<br />
43. Get to the source of problem rather than suppress the symptoms<br />
44. Focus your attention on what matters most<br />
45. Cultivate a positive attitude<br />
46. Be committed to something bigger than yourself<br />
47. Define your leadership gap<br />
48. Create a plan and work with your coach to close your leadership gap<br />
49. Practice endorsing and acknowledging others<br />
50. Define success for yourself<br />
51. Put your happiness first, above all else<br />
52. Get your request to demand ratio to 80/20<br />
53. Choose the environments that bring out your highest version of you<br />
54. Practice authentic listening<br />
54. Ask better questions<br />
55. Identify your next 20 shifts to make<br />
56. Adopt a coaching mindset<br />
57. Increase you own coach-ability<br />
58. Stop making excuses for how you wound up being<br />
59. Tolerate nothing<br />
60. Empower the people around you<br />
61. Share your top 3 goals for the year with 10 people<br />
62. Write your own epitaph<br />
63. Welcome feedback from others and practice only saying “thank you”<br />
64. Create a use a one-page strategic plan<br />
65. Conduct a daily huddle (stand-up meeting) with team<br />
66. Have a weekly sales meeting<br />
67. Know and review your critical numbers<br />
68. Review financials, profit and loss each month<br />
69. Know your “Why?” for being in business<br />
70. Ask for referrals and introductions<br />
71. Make “We Care” outbound phone calls post sale or service<br />
72. Stay on top of collections and accounts receivables<br />
73. Identify the 3-5 biggest threats/predictable stops that might interfere with you achieving your top goals<br />
74. Make sure you set yourself up to play a winnable game</p>
<p><strong>What stands out to you about the above?</strong></p>
<p><strong>What questions come up for you?</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>What would you add?</strong></p>
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